Post-Debate Breakfast with Tim Hudak

Last night, the Ontario Conservative Party leadership hopefuls debated at Ottawa University.

OK – I have to declare my personal bias: while I am not a member of any political party, I like Randy Hillier – and have liked him long before this leadership race started.  I like what he stands for and I like the way he stands for it.  Also, I am not a fan of the only leadership-hopeful who is a fan of the OHRC (whose federal counterpart has, BTW, just rejected their own reviewer’s call to clean up their act), Ms. Elliot.

This morning, I had the pleasure of being invited to the ‘post-debate’ breakfast with Tim Hudak.

Very interesting.

Of the conservative leadership candidates, Mr. Hudak is philosophically the closest to Mr. Hillier.  Here’s a quick summary (from my point of view):

  • Human Rights Commissions – bad
  • Rule of law – good
  • Nanny state – bad
  • Individual freedoms – even in the workplace – good
  • Dalton McGuinty – bad
  • Tax cuts – good

Can’t really argue against that!

And, I do like the nifty little quote on his website:

“For too long, individual rights have been trampled by a dysfunctional human rights bureaucracy… and the democracy of our unionized workplaces has been eroded.”

– Tim Hudak

I must admit, in person, Mr. Hudak made a very good impression on me.

Despite the early hour – following a long and exhausting evening, he was bright and fresh and smiling and pleasant.  Abandoning the microphone, he preferred to use his voice directly.  Always a good move – if the venue allows it.

And he spoke well.  He said all the ‘right’ pre-canned things, as is to be expected, touching on the his main campaign platforms.  I was pleasantly surprised to find he sounded more conservative – and less ‘watered down’ – than I had expected.  He even mentioned Ronals Regan!  That is always a hit conservatives – and it certainly scored him points with this breakfast crowd.

This is important: if the people I talked to were representative of the whole group, many of them have not yet decided whom they will vote for when the time to elect a new leader comes.  Many were weighing the Mike Harris endorsment of Tim (good) against the rumours that he has inherited a lot of the ‘John Tory people’ (bad).  Many liked Randy Hillier, but worried about his electability in the Greater Toronto Area.

The main issues on people’s minds?  Scrap the HRCs, lower taxes, fire the nanny and replace it with a state which respects people’s individual rights….  There might have been more, but these were what I heard most often and most loudly.

Still, I find it hard to gage people at these types of things.  Things are all prepared, rehearsed, people know they are ‘on the record’ and so it’s hard to separate the ‘personna’ from the ‘person’ – if you know what I mean.  So, despite the fact I quite liked Tim Hudak, I was not sure of my judgment.

Kids, on the other hand, are very good at judging a person!

Luckily, there was a lone kid at this breakfast.  Lisa MacLeod had dragged along her young daughter, Victoria (then promptly left her to find entertainment on her own, while she herself went to schmooze talk to important people).  Looking for someone to help her from her boredom, little Victoria turned to – you guessed it – Tim Hudak!

It was easy to see that Victoria knew him – and liked him.  And, she obviously trusted him – and knew he would talk to her.  Which he did.  He got down to her level, so she could talk to him eye-to-eye, and instead of brushing her off, he actually talked to her.  Until, that is, her mom ushered her away…

And, while I think (and I am not alone) that the endorsment by Lisa MacLeod is more likely going to hurt Tim Hudak in this leadership race than help him, the genuine endorsement by Ms. MacLeod Jr. is a strong plus for Mr. Hudak.

At least – in my never-humble-opinion, that is!

‘Xanthippa on Aspergers’ – a new spot for my Aspie stuff

This blog does not have a very tight focus…to say the least!

I bounce around, from current political stuff – global, Canadian and local to me, to a bit of political theory/history (with help from others!), to philosophical/religious stuff…and just about everything in between.

Oh, and I also have a few post about Asperger Syndrome:  my experiences in living with it and some of the perspective from an Aspie point of view, as well as some things that worked when I helped my – and other – kids master their Aspieness and turn it from ‘a curse’ into ‘a gift’.

Well, it seems that some of the things which I tried and which worked for me and mine have also worked for some other Aspies!  And, it has also attracted the attention of some educators of Aspies – and, perhaps, over time, it could become an unlikely resource.

From what I hear, many professionals who work with Aspie kids have great amount of theoretical information available to them, but very little practical ‘stuff’ to go on.  So, reading the experiences of an adult Aspie – even one who is not a specialist in their field.  Perhaps they can read my experiences and see what worked for me, and interpret it at a higher level than I could hope to.

While I think that my ‘Aspie posts’ fit quite well in with my other rants, I cannot but help thinking that my other rants do not exactly fit in seamlessly with my ‘Aspie posts’, so to speak.

Therefore, I have decided to start a blog to house just my Aspie things.  It is called ‘Xanthippa on Aspergers‘.  OK – so it sounds a little pretentious:  but, I wanted the title to retain some of the keywords which get rated high on Google and help people looking for my take on Aspergers…

One advantage of this place will be that the tags/categories will be more specific, so it will be more easily searchable.  And, since none of the political or philosophical or religious rants (yes, I am a tiny bit opinionated) will be there, it will be a little more acceptable to ‘educational professionals’.

Over the next little while, I will re-post all my Aspie things on the new site – starting with the most read ones first.  (Of course, I will not take them away from here!)

In the future, I will post my thoughts on Aspergers on ‘Xanthippa on Aspergers’ – but I will still cross-post them here.

Thank you all for all the feedback and support!

Ottawa City Council gives my son a bloody nose!

All right – a warning:  this is a rant!

A bit of an angry rant!

Why?

Because our most esteemed City Council gave my 10-year-old a nosebleed!  LITERALLY! (And I use that term accurately.)

How?

Well, just read on…

The Ottawa City Council has so lost sight of what their role is – quite a while ago. I do not know if there is any hope of shaking them out of their fuzzy dreamworld and back into reality.  You know, where we, the taxpayers without expense accounts have to live!

The only member of this Council who actually wanted to focus the City on its core tasks was the Mayor – and he has been effectively neutralized through lawfare.  In the meantime, the rest of our elected officials are planning to spend hundreds of millions of our taxpayer dollars on a new Central Library – which will be a legacy to their brilliance and importance… a tourist attraction, they tell us… while they are also building another new library building on Woodroffe avenue – less than a 10-minute walk from an existing huge library in the former Nepean City Hall!

They are busy banning kids from playing street hockey, banning people from having nice gardens – or, at least gardens that look like the people want them to, banning people from selling their property – because they went there for a movie once, banning people from just about anything they can think of that is none of their (insert expletive of your own choice here) business, while wasting time doing anything they can think of – except their real jobs!

In the meantime, our most esteemed councilors do nothing to stop

  • duping huge amounts of raw sewage into the Ottawa river…
  • unruly crowds which illegally block our streets
  • endless pet projects, which lack vision for the city as a whole
  • neglect in maintaining city-owned buildings, so that they are condemned
  • AND  our roads from getting so pot-hole riddled that, today, on the ride home, my son said his school-bus went over some bumps on the road that were so big, he got a nosebleed!

YES!

The school-bus ride on Ottawa City roads was SO ROUGH, my son was jostled so hard inside his school-bus, he started to bleed from his nose!

No, his head did not hit the window, or another seat, or anything like that.  It was simply the force of the jostle – from the neglected, decaying and increasingly un-navigable Ottawa City streets – that triggered his nosebleed!

And, no – he does not get nosebleeds easily.

Yes, he has had some in the past – but they tended to result from expected causes:  a sudden impact into a wall he did not see in time while running, or a ball whose trajectory he did not triangulate properly, and so on…  all ‘normal’ and understandable reasons for an active kid to get a nosebleed from.  And, no, he has not had any such ‘close encounters’ with walls or balls or related things – or any nosebleeds – in the last few days or weeks…so this is not a case of a ‘scab coming off’ or any such thing.

He said he was lucky that a lot of the kids sitting near him had kleenexes, so he did not get his blood all over the bus or any of the other kids.  Still, his own shirt bore the marks of it…

In other words, through their failure to maintain the roads – one of their primary roles as our elected officials – the Ottawa City Council, in no uncertain terms, gave my son a bloody nose!

I could not make this stuff up if I tried… and I am so angry now, that if a Councillor showed his or her face to me now, I would give them such a tongue-lashing, their EARS would hurt!  May be not bleed, but – man – when kids end up bleeding, because our politicians are not doing their jobs…

Oh, I had better end this and go calm down a bit…  I wonder if our politicians will fix the roads leading up to their Taj Mahal of a new library….you know, so the ‘tourists’ don’t get blood on the books!

From tragedy to helping others: story of a real-life hero

What would you do if your spouse and children were murdered by terrorists?

This is the story of what Dr. Chandra Sankurathri did  when his family died in the Air India 183 bombing

First, he grieved for his wife Manjari and children, Sirikan (7) and Sarada (4).  He grieved long and deeply.

Then he found a way to make sure they were never forgotten – in this best way possible.

This scientists went back to his wife’s birthplace in India and, using funds he raised by opening a charitable organisations which bears her name:  the Manjari Sankurathri Memorial Foundation (MSMF), he opened a school for kids who would otherwise not be able to get an education!

He named the school for his daughter, Sarada.

Though the doors of life closed on his daughter, a school bearing Sarada’s name opened the doors to a new, better life for hundreds of children.  What a worthy legacy!

But, Dr. Chandra did not stop there.

He noticed that many of the poorest people in the region could not earn a living because they were blind.  Being a scientist, he analysed the problem and soon realized that the leading cause of blindness were cataracts or other treatable conditions.

Devoting much energy to this, he added an eye clinic to the school: the bus, once it brought the pupils to school, could then bring the blind to the clinic where they are treated.

The clininc, named after his son, quickly grew into the Srikiran Institute of Opthalmology.

I admit it:  I am a bit of a softie!

When I see people selflessly helping others, I cannot but be touched by their devotion to the cause of humanity.  Yes, I do wish I could live up to the standards they set:  and, yes, I also know I am not strong enough to!  I doubt that most of us could only aspire to their strength!

And, when you see someone suffer a personal tragedy of this magnitude – a tragedy which resulted from human avarice and hate – and give your loved ones memory meaning through helping others, I cannot but see this person as a real-life hero!

So, I cannot but respect and admire them – and their work.

Letting everyone else know about them – and their work – is the least I can do!

If YOU would like to help Dr. Chandra in his work – and enjoy the most delicious Indian food EVER, here is your chance!

I speak of nothing other than the annual MSMF fundraising picnic, coming up in Ottawa on Saturday, the 13th of June, 2009.

I have gone to this picnic many many times:  the people are friendly and the food is, well, really, really awesome!

All the food is prepared on-site (the Andrew Haydon Park).  Some of it is made – and donated – by the best Indian restaurants in Ottawa.  But, the best dishes are the ones prepared by some of the best Indian cooks in the world:  but whose cooking you can only taste if you are invited to their home, or if you come to this picnic!

If you cannot come, you can still help!  (Sorry, you’ll miss out on the food – but, if you’d like, I’ll describe it for you afterwards!)

So, if you happen to be in the Ottawa area, you just might want to drop in, enjoy some awesome food – and be a part of something great at the same time!

Doors-open Ottawa

This is actually a really awesome thing!

Doors-open Ottawa is a weekend when all kinds of neat places open their doors and let us, the ‘unwashed masses’, peek in!

OK – so, many of the places are quite familiar:  the Hindu Temple, the Ottawa Mosque, the Gurdwara, many of the Churches….

But – a lot of the really awesome science labs are open, too!  From CANMET (see granite blocks crushed before your eyes – and get a fragment as a souvenier) to the bug labs (Canada’s ONLY nematode taxonomist explains the intricacies of his profession – on a tour guided by one of Marc Garneau’s distant cousins!)

This is a really awesome thing!

The only criticism?  Putting it on the last weekend before high-school exams keeps a lot of young people who could benefit from learning about the ‘reality’ of various choices in education/professions because they have to study – in order to have high-enough grades to make it into schools that prepare them for these types of careers!

The future of broadband in Canada: have a voice!

Tim Denton, the CRTC commissioner, has recently made the following statement:

‘The rights of Canadians to talk and communicate across the Internet are vastly too important to be subjected to a scheme of government licensing. If more Canadians were aware how close their communications have come to being regulated by this Commission, not by our will but because we administer an obsolete statute, they would be rightly concerned. Fortunately, good sense prevailed and the evidence for intervention was not yet present. But this confluence of facts may not always be there. Thus the call for a government review of a digital transition strategy is both wise and opportune. Let us fix this problem.’


via Michael Geist

And while I do not believe that the CRTC has the right to control our wavelengths, the reality is that they do.  And, to their credit, they have (as Michael Geist’s post puts it so eloquently), decided to keep their hands off the internet – for now.

But, they will go on to develop a new comprehensive national digital strategy…

All of our voices should be heard, to help ensure that the net truly remains neutral – or, at least as neutral as possible.  This is important:  still, most of us are not sure how to best be heard…

Which is why I am going to quote the following text from Campaign for Democratic Media almost in its entirety:

Citizens from coast to coast are expected to engage in Canada’s first-ever online LIVE video-streamed national conversation about the future of broadband in this country.

During Town Hall meetings in Toronto, Ottawa and Vancouver, viewers can take part in the confab through live, real-time online chat available at theREALnews.com, rabble.ca, TheTyee, Beyond Robson, SaveOurNet.ca and other participating websites.

The first of these innovative town hall meetings takes place in Toronto on Monday, June 8. The participating websites will start streaming video at 7:30 p.m.

The town hall events will bring together web innovators, entrepreneurs, social change leaders, cultural workers and citizens to discuss the future of the Internet in Canada. The sessions will be recorded and will form part of the citizen testimony that SaveOurNet.ca’s Steve Anderson will use to guide his presentation to the CRTC at the July 6 traffic management hearing.

SaveOurNet.ca is encouraging people who live within commuting distance to attend the town hall sessions to meet and mingle with fellow Netizens who want a say in Canada’s future Internet.

Here are the details, along with some updated information:

TORONTO • June 8 • 7 p.m.
The Gladstone Hotel, 1214 Queen St. West

Speakers include:
Mark Surman, Executive Director, Mozilla Foundation
Olivia Chow, NDP Member of Parliament
Steve Anderson, co-founder, SaveOurNet.ca
Rocky Gaudrault, CEO, Teksavvy Solutions Inc.
Derek Blackadder, National Representative with CUPE

Special guests:
Jesse Brown, Search Engine
David Skinner, Communications Professor, York University
Kim Elliot, Rabble.ca
Mark Kuznicki, remarkk consultant
Dan O’Brien, ACTRA
Ben Lewis, Canadian Federation of Students
Wayne Mcphail, w8nc

REGISTER TO RESERVE A SEAT: http://saveournet.ca/toronto

OTTAWA • June 10 • 7 p.m.
Ottawa Public Library Main Branch, 120 Metcalfe St.

Speakers include:
Michael Geist, Canada Research Chair in Internet and E-commerce Law, University of Ottawa, blogger
Charlie Angus, NDP MP, Heritage and Culture critic
Rocky Gaudrault, CEO, Teksavvy Solutions Inc.
Bill St. Arnaud, Chief Research Officer for CANARIE Inc.

Introduction by Steve Anderson, co-founder, SaveOurNet.ca
Discussion Facilitator: Marita Moll, TeleCommunities Canada

Special guests:
Mike Gifford, founder of Open Concept Consulting Inc. Leslie Regan Shade, Communications Professor, Concordia University Graham Cox, Canadian Federation of Students

REGISTER TO RESERVE A SEAT: http://saveournet.ca/ottawa

VANCOUVER • June 20 • (time to be determined)
Vancouver ChangeCamp, BCIT, downtown campus, 555 Seymour St.

Speakers include:
Rocky Gaudrault, CEO, Teksavvy Solutions Inc.
Steve Anderson, co-founder, SaveOurNet.ca
(More to come)

REGISTER TO RESERVE A SEAT: http://vanchangecamp.eventbrite.com/

Canada’s FIRST live INTERNET DANCE PARTY will hit Vancouver on Saturday, June 20! This is a fundraiser for host SaveOurNet.ca as well as the official after party for VanChangeCamp.

6 to 8 p.m. – Social & Film Screening
8 p.m. to 2 a.m. – Internet Dance Party
Gallery Gachet

Special Guests:
Quest Poetics feat: Mello Black, Mario Vaira, & DJ Hayze
More guests to be announced soon!

RESERVE A SPOT: http://internetdanceparty.eventbrite.com/

Join the Facebook group of your local Town Hall:
http://saveournet.ca/content/town-hall-facebook-groups

Organizing these events would not be possible without your contributions. Please donate today:
http://saveournet.ca/donate

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Food Aid day

Today, Ottawa is holding its Food Aid Day.

This is about people helping people!

Local food bank is buying cows from local farmers – ‘on the hoof’, so to speak – and the farmers are matching the purchase with an equal donation.  The beef gets made into packets of ground beef and is given to people who come to the Ottawa Food Bank for help.

This was originally thought up when local farmers were having a difficult time selling their beef, because of the ‘mad cow’ issue:  even thoug no Ontario cattle were ill, their export market dissappeared.  Now that the farmers are doing better, they are donating cattle and giving help back to the community which helped them in difficult times.

Oh, and Laureen Harper – the Prime Minister’s wife – will be just one of the movers-and-shakers participating in a cow-milking competition as part of this fundraiser!

I like good stories like this.

Lily of the valley

The other day, I was in my front ‘shade’ garden…

… when an elderly couple inquired if I ‘needed help’!

I sat up, pulled my camera down and embarrassed the kind folks… I was just taking some pictures of my flowers!

Of course, lily of the valleys are pretty low – so, to get the best shots (the sun was just setting, and I ‘had to’ capture that ‘kiss’ of ‘setting sunlight’ on the delicate blossoms…), I had to be lying down in the grass, and angling myself for the ‘best shot’!

I suppose it is easy to mistake an amateur photographer’s attempts to get the ‘perfect shot’ with random writhing in pain…art hurts, and all that…

Enjoy!

(Updated to include the title…and fix some spelling….)

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